I'm not sure how others use the page Pagan Blog Prompts. Whether they pick and choose from the archives to find a good topic or if they follow them post for post using all of the prompts. I'm more of a pick and choose type of person. I can't just get a prompt and write about it. It has to be something that speaks to me. This is one of those...
Monogamy is important and unimportant, in my opinion. I guess it depends on how you wish to live your life. I'm bisexual. Always have been I guess but I didn't let myself believe it until right before my wedding. Ironically it was my, then, soon to be husband that told me that he thought I was bisexual. I love men. But I also love women. My thoughts on women haven't changed since then. Neither have my thoughts on marriage. I'm faithful in my relationship to my husband. In a way. I will never love another man. I'll never have sex with another man but, as I've been known to say, "sometimes you need a woman's touch".
My husband encourages this for 2 reasons. 1 - the same reason most men would encourage that their wife/girlfriend/lover/etc. have sex with another woman. 2 - it makes me happy and (I'm assuming here) makes him feel that because he lets me do this, I won't leave.
So, in closing I guess, I'm monogamous in a way. I've had sex with women since my hubby and I got married but never behind his back. I'm not a cheater. It's not my way. All of the women understood that I wouldn't leave him for them. That it was to be a "fling" of sorts. I'm not sure I'm explaining this right lol.
What are you views on monogamy?
)o( Jena
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